my boss would gaslight me, question my degree and overall bully me into feeling unsafe, scapegoat me, insult me in front of other people. but sometimes be nice to me only to insult me the next day.... Also they would call me at 5 am just to yell at me. They would also just insult me about things unrelated to the job and clearly said stuff to me because I'm a young asian female and not a old white person. I started going to counseling about 1 month in (in retrospect some of the bullying started during the interview process) and the therapist said that my boss was toxic and that I was in an "unsafe work environment" but I had rent to pay and just signed a 1 year lease and so I stayed, hoping it would get better. It did not. After about 7ish months I felt such high burnout, that I feared going to work and started avoiding my job and eventually had to leave. I tried to explain this to HR (many times in multiple meetings and emails) and they did nothing.
